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If you mean “women don’t make the first move,” then you’re missing a critical factor: a lot of guys react to women who flaunt or invert gender roles.When women make the first move on the wrong guy, one of two things happens. Or it may mean that you make a good first impression, but they just weren’t attracted to you, sexually or physically. – The instant gratification culture, a lack of recognition that it takes some time to get to know someone, and develop chemistry, and that men need more than one date to achieve this.You weren’t required to see them again; you didn’t dig them and that was the end of that.If you were to get a second date with someone and realize that you weren’t actually into them and decide not to see them again, then you would be dictating terms there, too. You can take all of five seconds to read through Buzzfeed listicles about women’s dating woes to realize that they’re dealing with the same bullshit you are. Sometimes the answer is more nuanced than normal or requires cutting through a Gordian knot of related issues. But, occasionally, I’ll get a letter from a reader that requires a deeper and more thorough dive than the usual request for advice.
When you want to have a second date with literally woman you’ve been on a date with, I’m left thinking that you’ve set the bar for a second date so low that you could trip over it. What you’re describing as “being ignored” is “women going about their daily lives”, which, remarkably, doesn’t revolve around you or your boner.And while, yes, we are dealing with the consequences of the paradox of choice when it comes to dating, that’s something that affects men and women.